The CHILD PREDATORS We NEVER SUSPECT
How overlooking female sex offenders under the guise of feminism inflicts generational damage.
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Between America’s Most Wanted, Forensic Files and To Catch a Predator, we’re programmed to believe men are the threat when it comes to sexual assault or crime in general.
Men indeed make up the majority of perpetrators, yet we ignore the female offenders lurking beneath the surface.
This line of thinking causes people to put their guard down when they leave their kids with female teachers, coaches, doctors, and counselors. That’s why boys don’t babysit.
Not only do we downplay sexual assaults between older women and younger boys, but we often celebrate them.
Just consider the classic coming-of-age tale told in American Pie:
While the script suggests Finch is legally an adult, an inverse scene with Stiffler’s dad shacking up with a female high school party-goer would not fly.
The same goes for The Graduate. Although Dustin Hoffman’s character Benjamin is 20 and Mrs. Robinson is in her early 40s, the film would have a different tone if the roles were reversed.
You can argue they’re just movies, but the 2004 film Birth went just a little too far with Nicole Kidman’s character kissing her dead husband reincarnated into a ten-year-old boy.
That was disturbing, especially given she may be on one of those lists floating around out there.
Yes, we know there are films with older males and younger females with inappropriate relationships, like Lolita in 1962, Fish Tank in 2009, and Manhattan in 1979. (Heard of them?)
But generally speaking, we consider older men with younger girls as predatory and creepy, while we regard younger males hooking up with an older female as an achievement.
Online publications regularly post articles like Sexiest Sex Offenders Of The Year, Grading the Newest Sex Scandal Teacher, and Van Halen used the idea to help define a decade with their 1984 hit “Hot For Teacher.”
But South Park called the hypocrisy for what it is in this 2006 episode.
On the rare occasions that female offenders made the news, such as Mary Kay Laterneua and Debra Lafave did at the turn of the century, there were more media sensations than concerns than anything else.
When Laterneau, a 34-year-old mother of four at the time of the offense, was released from prison, she married her victim, who was 12 at the time of the offense. Entertainment Tonight exclusively covered the wedding.
Due to this cultural denial, you might be surprised to learn how many female teachers and faculty members are caught regularly, the conviction disparity between the two, and the unspoken damage predators inflict on future generations.
Stats
According to a 2016 study, the percentage of recorded female sex offenders is debatable, with one analysis between 12 countries finding a small percentage of reported cases are perpetrated by women.
In contrast, victim surveys suggest the actual number of female offenders is six times higher than reported figures.
To specify, The US Department of Education published a literature review of sexual misconduct in schools in 2004, finding that 9.6% of high school students have experienced some form of abuse.
Between seven studies, most offenders were males, while female offenders comprised between 4% and 43%.
Quite a contrast.
Not surprisingly, 54% to 77% of victims were female, and 23% to 46% were male, with results suggesting male victims are far more likely to self-report abuse than females, 40% for boys vs. only 4% for girls.
Does this suggest female students are abused at alarmingly higher rates than we would assume? Are female offenders more of an issue than we realize?
In the book Culture of Denial: Exploring Professional Perspectives on Female Sex Offending, Myriam S. Denov says there is evidence to suggest sexual abuse by females may be under-recognized via dismissive attitudes from victims and society overall.
Unfortunately, there’s no shortage of sample cases.
Recent Cases
Just last week in Los Angeles, a 43-year-old special ed teacher was charged with having sex with a 13-year-old student in her car.
In September, Hailey Clifton-Carmack, 26, admitted in court to having sex with a 16-year-old boy.
In July, Julie Rizzitello, 36, was accused of misconduct with a student in New Jersey, which comes after Allison Havemann-Niedrach, another New Jersey special needs teacher, was taken into custody for assaulting a student.
Also, notice how my descriptions match the official media narrative of female teachers “having sex” with underage students, not raping or molesting students, as they would say, with male offenders.
Just run a search online. There are guaranteed to be recent cases regardless of when you read this.
Disciplinary Discrepancies
There might be more male sex offenders than female, but how does sentencing match up between men and women?
As you might have guessed, a 2013 study of 97 cases in New Jersey found men are more likely to go to prison or jail than women, and men are likely to receive longer sentences.
It turns out feminists don’t demand equality on this one.
Women, in general, are more likely to get lenient sentences, especially in cases where female teachers and male students appear more circumstantial “consensual” to jurors.
Last month in Missouri, ex-math teacher Hailey Clifton-Carmack was sentenced to 4 years in prison, with most of the time to be reduced to three months if she completes a sex offender rehab program, which she most certainly will pursue.
She’s the one who admitted to having rough sex with a 16-year-old student while asking students to serve as lookouts.
Compare that to recent male teacher offenses, like Jeremy Schobel, 33, of Philadelphia, who was convicted for posing as teenage girls online and convincing them to send inappropriate photos and videos.
He got 30 years.
He didn’t even meet the victims, let alone physically assault them. The situation is definitely messed up, and he should be arrested and punished. But three decades for photos while a female teacher who had “rough sex” with a student in school, leaving claw marks on him and using the classroom as lookouts, will get away with a few months behind bars?
Why?
If it seems female predation is on the rise, why?
Is it because of movements like #MeToo, where many women realized people would basically believe anything they say? Due to our cultural denial, do female predators know that even if they’re caught, they’ll receive minimal sentences?
Or is it feminism?
Not the feminism that demands another $1,000 off that new Suburu, but the ever-growing pressure for women to break from traditional roles: be a girl boss, don’t have kids, enjoy sexual freedom. Is that eroding women's outlook on life and influencing dark behavior?
With less marriage, are women, in general, lonelier, given that men are less willing to settle down thanks to feminism?
Are these progressive attitudes coupled with increased drug abuse, legal or otherwise, and overall refusal to grow up and take responsibility blurring the lines between childhood and adulthood?
If nothing else, opportunities for misconduct are much more accessible thanks to technology. Many cases sprouted from texting or communicating through apps and social media.
Whatever the cause or the manner, generational damage is inevitable.
Generational Impact, Red Flags, and Support
While society tends to think female-on-male abuse doesn’t harm victims, there is sufficient evidence to suggest otherwise.
Research shows abuse significantly impacts male and female students, including PTSD, anxiety, depression, self-harm, inability to express emotions, rage, interpersonal issues such as feeling isolated, and trust issues.
Don’t forget female sex offenders have no qualms with victimizing girls, either, with some research suggesting women are more likely to target female victims. Given female victims are less likely to self-report, coupled with the social denial of female offenders, the actual amount of abuse is likely far higher than expected.
Unfortunately, many of these victims will continue the cycle of abuse, with 42% of sex offenders having experienced abuse in their childhood.
Red Flags and Support
Sexual assault is an international pandemic between female and male offenders and victims.
According to the Rape, Abuse, Incest, National Network (RAINN), here are several warning signs that your student or child may be a victim of sexual abuse:
Here are a few signs abusive adults may exhibit:
If you suspect a child in your life may be experiencing sexual abuse, you can talk to someone who is trained to help. Call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 800.656.HOPE (4673) or chat online at online.rainn.org.
You look like an angel, walk like an angel, talk like an angel. But I got wise, you're the devil in disguise. -Elvis Presley
Great article on a subject that is hardly talked about. My favorite line .... "It turns out feminists don’t demand equality on this one." Thankyou for a relevant and informative write up.